OKAY. Have you been trying to figure out how to change your devwatches/friends/journal subscriptions/etc? BECAUSE I JUST FIGURED IT OUT. GOD. HERE'S HOW YOU DO IT:
Just go to anyone's page that isn't your own and click the devwatch button. You then have all of the old options availible; friend him, don't show that person's wimpy journals, let this person know I'm stalking them, blah blah blah. COMPLETE. And remember to hit the save button.